The Best Practice Is, Get Counseling Before A Relationship Ensues
It is more important to become the right person as opposed to looking for the right person. The reason is, if you do not know what you’re looking for, you’re never going to find it. To find certain character traits in another, we must first have an appreciation for the same character traits operating in us as we work simultaneously to set standards on what we want, and willing to accept before starting to look for them in another. In so doing, it will enable us to appreciate that quality in the other person as we realize why we became attracted to this person in the first place. It also helps us to get to know ourselves while getting to know the other person. Still, it begs the question though, “What Do You Say After You Say Hello?” So then, this is the time when you also ask the question, “tell me who you are without telling what you do?
